Well, W and I are back from our big weekend in the big city.
Sometimes I am so accustomed to living in the suburbs that I feel a little like Country Mouse when the buildings exceed three or four stories.
The Addams Family musical was entertaining, especially if you grew up with the TV show. It certainly isn’t Les Mis or even Hairspray, but then what is?
Dinner was delicious. Highlights: a sheeps milk ricotta appetizer and an Italian custard called a budino. Best dessert ever. It had a dark chocolate bottom, a creamy, velvety middle and a salted caramel top. I told W that it made all of my taste buds come alive. I felt like Top Chef judge Tom Colicchio for a moment. The budino was way sexier than Padma Lakshmi, and that’s saying something. This is evidenced by the fact that I am posting a picture of the budino and not a gratuitous photo of Padma like the one that appears on the cover of French Playboy.
On Sunday, we were able to sleep in, enjoy a nice breakfast and do some in-town shopping.
The most unusual part of the weekend occurred before the play. We were looking to kill some time and wandered into a gay bookstore. W and I browsed, and I found a copy of Gertrude Stein’s The Autobiography of Alice B. Toklas on the clearance rack. I decided that I needed to own the book and went up to the front counter to pay for it.
There was a very skinny gay boy working the register.
I gave him a nod. The nod spoke volumes. It said: “Hello. How are you? Nice day we’re having. I have enjoyed shopping in your store. I am glad that there are still gay bookstores around. ”
I placed the book on the counter.
He looked at me quizzically, unable to decipher the nod. It always works with butch women. Straight guys, too. I was puzzled.
The clerk picked up the book very gingerly, possibly concerned that it might contain lesbian cooties or something, and announced the price.
I silently paid in cash.
“Do you want a bag?” he asked, unable to mask his annoyance. I wasn’t sure if he was put out by my literary selection — it certainly wasn’t Sexy Sailors or Bend Over! — or by having to push a few buttons on the cash register.
I thought about the bag for a few seconds. I wouldn’t be carrying around The Harder She Comes: Butch Femme Erotica or something racy like that. But, I would be taking the book into the theater and a restaurant, so a bag might be nice.
“That would be great,” I said, trying unsuccessfully to sound friendly and approachable.
That’s when he bent down under the counter, pulled out a giant white paper bag and placed Alice B. Toklas inside where she slid about, bonking her head here and there, because the bag was so fucking large.
When we are outside, I tell W that the big bag was a big fuck you to the big bull-dyke buying classic feminist literature.
She tells me to be nice.
On our way to the theater with Alice B. Toklas and the ginormous bag in tow, I play a game that I like to call “I could fit a _____ in this giant bag.”
“I could fit this week’s groceries in this giant bag,” I say.
“I could fit a loaf of French bread, a large wheel of cheese and three bottles of wine in this giant bag.”
“I could fit a pair of Dr. Marten’s 8-eye boots and four flannel shirts in this giant bag.”
“I could fit two of our cats in this giant bag.”
(At least two. Maybe all three, I think now as I write this post.)
And off we went to the theater, me, W, Alice B. and the bag. We all had a lovely time.
I tell W this afternoon that I will be blogging about the bag.
“Be nice,” she says.
I am not sure why she is constantly reminding me of this.
She’s talking, of course, about the clerk in the gay bookstore. Not to rip him to shreds over a giant paper bag, especially one that is 100 percent recyclable and biodegradable.
Upon reflection, I realize that my approach was all wrong.
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I saw skinny gay dude and thought show tunes, see-through shirts and attitude.
He saw non-communicative large woman and thought angry butch lesbian.
That didn’t leave much for either of us to hang our hats on.
I think now that I should have opened differently.
Me: “Great bookstore.”
Me: “We’re in town to see the Addams Family. It’s a musical.”
Because just like the Addams, we are family after all.